{"id":988771,"date":"2018-05-20T11:14:00","date_gmt":"2018-05-20T09:14:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/alexandravonwaaden.com\/?p=988771"},"modified":"2024-05-16T11:20:02","modified_gmt":"2024-05-16T09:20:02","slug":"fear-of-failure-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/alexandravonwaaden.com\/de\/2018\/05\/20\/fear-of-failure-2\/","title":{"rendered":"Angst vor dem Scheitern 2"},"content":{"rendered":"<div data-elementor-type=\"wp-post\" data-elementor-id=\"988771\" class=\"elementor elementor-988771\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-02beb25 e-flex e-con-boxed wpr-particle-no wpr-jarallax-no wpr-parallax-no wpr-sticky-section-no wpr-equal-height-no e-con e-parent\" data-id=\"02beb25\" data-element_type=\"container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-5799777 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"5799777\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t<style>\/*! elementor - v3.21.0 - 15-04-2024 *\/\n.elementor-widget-text-editor.elementor-drop-cap-view-stacked .elementor-drop-cap{background-color:#69727d;color:#fff}.elementor-widget-text-editor.elementor-drop-cap-view-framed .elementor-drop-cap{color:#69727d;border:3px solid;background-color:transparent}.elementor-widget-text-editor:not(.elementor-drop-cap-view-default) .elementor-drop-cap{margin-top:8px}.elementor-widget-text-editor:not(.elementor-drop-cap-view-default) .elementor-drop-cap-letter{width:1em;height:1em}.elementor-widget-text-editor .elementor-drop-cap{float:left;text-align:center;line-height:1;font-size:50px}.elementor-widget-text-editor .elementor-drop-cap-letter{display:inline-block}<\/style>\t\t\t\t<div data-breakout=\"normal\"><div data-breakout=\"normal\"><p id=\"viewer-eoid5\" class=\"uO6C2 sVKZ1 iUHpx z3jW6\" dir=\"auto\"><span class=\"p7A8V\"><em>On my last blog post I linked the fear of failure to the way you get started in your life and take that first breath. And how that can already affect the way you approach things in life in your own way.<\/em><\/span><\/p><\/div><div data-hook=\"rcv-block2\">\u00a0<\/div><div data-breakout=\"normal\"><p id=\"viewer-c015c\" class=\"uO6C2 sVKZ1 iUHpx z3jW6\" dir=\"auto\"><span class=\"p7A8V\"><em>Now doing things in your own unique way is not a bad thing, but if it always holds you back in achieving your goals and make your dreams come true &#8211; that is a disappointing situation, wouldn&#8217;t you agree.<\/em><\/span><\/p><\/div><div data-hook=\"rcv-block3\">\u00a0<\/div><div data-breakout=\"normal\"><p id=\"viewer-biscf\" class=\"uO6C2 sVKZ1 iUHpx z3jW6\" dir=\"auto\"><span class=\"p7A8V\"><em>While I was writing the first part of fear of failure, I realized that it is not just the fear of failure that holds us back from going forward in the right direction. What is really missing, is the love for our life.<\/em><\/span><\/p><\/div><div data-hook=\"rcv-block4\">\u00a0<\/div><div data-breakout=\"normal\"><p class=\"uO6C2 sVKZ1 iUHpx z3jW6\" dir=\"auto\"><span class=\"p7A8V\"><em>If we would love our life completely, then there would be no fear of failure, because everything we do is done with love and where there is love there can&#8217;t be no fear. But we are always comparing ourselves with everybody around us and not just that. We are watching TV and see how for example The Kardashians live and we waste time watching all these shows that show some of us how bad your life is comparing to the rich and famous. So, we come up with these dreams to become famous and rich our self, but oops then we realize that we have much too much fear inside us to really do the things that a necessary to become famous. And that makes it even harder to love our life, because all these negative emotions keep pouring in on us and we don&#8217;t know where to go. We become miserable even though our life is way beyond miserable. We start seeing a psychiatrist who most likely will tell us that we are depressed, and he is going to give us some pills to make us feel better.<br \/><\/em><\/span><\/p><div class=\"nLG8d5 F_3u4N\" data-hook=\"post-description\"><article class=\"blog-post-page-font\"><div class=\"post-content__body stSKMK\"><div class=\"moHCnT\"><div class=\"moHCnT\"><div class=\"fTEXDR\" data-rce-version=\"10.30.4\"><div class=\"pg0y4\" dir=\"ltr\" data-id=\"content-viewer\"><div class=\"_35OHq\"><div class=\"-Zrqr\"><div data-breakout=\"normal\"><p id=\"viewer-fmt03\" class=\"uO6C2 sVKZ1 iUHpx z3jW6\" dir=\"auto\"><span class=\"p7A8V\"><em>But do we ever ask ourselves why we feel this way in the first place.<\/em><\/span><\/p><\/div><div data-hook=\"rcv-block8\">\u00a0<\/div><div data-breakout=\"normal\"><p id=\"viewer-gtai\" class=\"uO6C2 sVKZ1 iUHpx z3jW6\" dir=\"auto\"><span class=\"p7A8V\"><em>Why can&#8217;t we love our life and enjoy every minute of it?<\/em><\/span><\/p><\/div><div data-hook=\"rcv-block9\">\u00a0<\/div><div data-breakout=\"normal\"><p id=\"viewer-9euku\" class=\"uO6C2 sVKZ1 iUHpx z3jW6\" dir=\"auto\"><span class=\"p7A8V\"><em>Because we are so so focused on the outside instead of the inside. We lost the connection to our inner self and we don&#8217;t listen to our heart and our gut. But we do listen to all these famous people on TV who somehow must have found the holy grail, because everything they say means so much more to us then what your friends or family or the people that live around you have to say, wouldn&#8217;t you agree.<\/em><\/span><\/p><\/div><div data-hook=\"rcv-block10\">\u00a0<\/div><div data-breakout=\"normal\"><p id=\"viewer-1mr0l\" class=\"uO6C2 sVKZ1 iUHpx z3jW6\" dir=\"auto\"><span class=\"p7A8V\"><em>Of course, some of them are experts in their field and they do have more knowledge in their field of expertise, but do they know you. Most likely not and they don&#8217;t care for you either, but the people that know you and love you, they care about you and your heart should tell you sometimes to listen to them as well.<\/em><\/span><\/p><\/div><div data-hook=\"rcv-block11\">\u00a0<\/div><div data-breakout=\"normal\"><p id=\"viewer-4qund\" class=\"uO6C2 sVKZ1 iUHpx z3jW6\" dir=\"auto\"><span class=\"p7A8V\"><em>So now you probably going to ask yourself: how can I change this?<\/em><\/span><\/p><\/div><div data-hook=\"rcv-block12\">\u00a0<\/div><div data-breakout=\"normal\"><p id=\"viewer-5qpt1\" class=\"uO6C2 sVKZ1 iUHpx z3jW6\" dir=\"auto\"><span class=\"p7A8V\"><em>Well, you are lucky you started reading my blog here and I hope you will continue stopping by my website, because I will help you connect yourself with your inner YOU. Become who YOU really are and not what you think you have to be based on media and other sources.<\/em><\/span><\/p><\/div><div data-hook=\"rcv-block13\">\u00a0<\/div><div data-breakout=\"normal\"><p id=\"viewer-56off\" class=\"uO6C2 sVKZ1 iUHpx z3jW6\" dir=\"auto\"><span class=\"p7A8V\"><em>Start to love your life today, because it is a magical, precious gift and you need to be grateful for it every morning when you wake up. And it doesn\u2019t matter if your rich or poor, healthy or ill, alone or with a partner.<\/em><\/span><\/p><\/div><div data-hook=\"rcv-block14\">\u00a0<\/div><div data-breakout=\"normal\"><div id=\"viewer-3bv8n\" class=\"uO6C2 sVKZ1 iUHpx z3jW6\" dir=\"auto\"><span class=\"p7A8V\">\u00a0<\/span><\/div><\/div><div data-hook=\"rcv-block15\">\u00a0<\/div><div data-breakout=\"normal\"><p id=\"viewer-eber1\" class=\"uO6C2 sVKZ1 iUHpx z3jW6\" dir=\"auto\"><span class=\"p7A8V\"><em>With much love to you all<\/em><\/span><\/p><\/div><div data-hook=\"rcv-block16\">\u00a0<\/div><div data-breakout=\"normal\"><p id=\"viewer-7k0vt\" class=\"uO6C2 sVKZ1 iUHpx z3jW6\" dir=\"auto\"><span class=\"p7A8V\"><em>Alexandra &#8211; LoveLifePrinciple<\/em> <\/span><\/p><\/div><div data-hook=\"rcv-block17\">\u00a0<\/div><\/div><div data-hook=\"rcv-block-last\">\u00a0<\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/article><\/div><div class=\"BL3dva\"><div class=\"OSxNQL\"><div id=\"post-footer\" class=\"OFA52E jG7PL8\"><div class=\"ux83lW\" data-hook=\"post-main-actions-desktop\">\u00a0<\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><p id=\"viewer-7j07n\" class=\"uO6C2 sVKZ1 iUHpx z3jW6\" dir=\"auto\">\u00a0<\/p><\/div><\/div>\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>On my last blog post I linked the fear of failure to the way you get started in your life and take that first breath. And how that can already affect the way you approach things in life in your own way. \u00a0 Now doing things in your own unique way is not a bad thing, but if it always holds you back in achieving your goals and make your dreams come true &#8211; that is a disappointing situation, wouldn&#8217;t you agree. \u00a0 While I was writing the first part of fear of failure, I realized that it is not just the fear of failure that holds us back from going forward in the right direction. What is really missing, is the love for our life. \u00a0 If we would love our life completely, then there would be no fear of failure, because everything we do is done with love and where there is love there can&#8217;t be no fear. But we are always comparing ourselves with everybody around us and not just that. We are watching TV and see how for example The Kardashians live and we waste time watching all these shows that show some of us how bad your life is comparing to the rich and famous. So, we come up with these dreams to become famous and rich our self, but oops then we realize that we have much too much fear inside us to really do the things that a necessary to become famous. And that makes it even harder to love our life, because all these negative emotions keep pouring in on us and we don&#8217;t know where to go. We become miserable even though our life is way beyond miserable. We start seeing a psychiatrist who most likely will tell us that we are depressed, and he is going to give us some pills to make us feel better. But do we ever ask ourselves why we feel this way in the first place. \u00a0 Why can&#8217;t we love our life and enjoy every minute of it? \u00a0 Because we are so so focused on the outside instead of the inside. We lost the connection to our inner self and we don&#8217;t listen to our heart and our gut. But we do listen to all these famous people on TV who somehow must have found the holy grail, because everything they say means so much more to us then what your friends or family or the people that live around you have to say, wouldn&#8217;t you agree. \u00a0 Of course, some of them are experts in their field and they do have more knowledge in their field of expertise, but do they know you. Most likely not and they don&#8217;t care for you either, but the people that know you and love you, they care about you and your heart should tell you sometimes to listen to them as well. \u00a0 So now you probably going to ask yourself: how can I change this? \u00a0 Well, you are lucky you started reading my blog here and I hope you will continue stopping by my website, because I will help you connect yourself with your inner YOU. Become who YOU really are and not what you think you have to be based on media and other sources. \u00a0 Start to love your life today, because it is a magical, precious gift and you need to be grateful for it every morning when you wake up. And it doesn\u2019t matter if your rich or poor, healthy or ill, alone or with a partner. \u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 With much love to you all \u00a0 Alexandra &#8211; LoveLifePrinciple \u00a0\u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0<\/p>","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":988772,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[84],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-988771","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-blog"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/alexandravonwaaden.com\/de\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/988771","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/alexandravonwaaden.com\/de\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/alexandravonwaaden.com\/de\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/alexandravonwaaden.com\/de\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/alexandravonwaaden.com\/de\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=988771"}],"version-history":[{"count":7,"href":"https:\/\/alexandravonwaaden.com\/de\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/988771\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":988779,"href":"https:\/\/alexandravonwaaden.com\/de\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/988771\/revisions\/988779"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/alexandravonwaaden.com\/de\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/988772"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/alexandravonwaaden.com\/de\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=988771"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/alexandravonwaaden.com\/de\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=988771"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/alexandravonwaaden.com\/de\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=988771"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}