Angst vor dem Scheitern 2

On my last blog post I linked the fear of failure to the way you get started in your life and take that first breath. And how that can already affect the way you approach things in life in your own way.

Now doing things in your own unique way is not a bad thing, but if it always holds you back in achieving your goals and make your dreams come true – that is a disappointing situation, wouldn’t you agree.

While I was writing the first part of fear of failure, I realized that it is not just the fear of failure that holds us back from going forward in the right direction. What is really missing, is the love for our life.

If we would love our life completely, then there would be no fear of failure, because everything we do is done with love and where there is love there can’t be no fear. But we are always comparing ourselves with everybody around us and not just that. We are watching TV and see how for example The Kardashians live and we waste time watching all these shows that show some of us how bad your life is comparing to the rich and famous. So, we come up with these dreams to become famous and rich our self, but oops then we realize that we have much too much fear inside us to really do the things that a necessary to become famous. And that makes it even harder to love our life, because all these negative emotions keep pouring in on us and we don’t know where to go. We become miserable even though our life is way beyond miserable. We start seeing a psychiatrist who most likely will tell us that we are depressed, and he is going to give us some pills to make us feel better.